Being a PASTOR can be one of the most difficult jobs in the world (that’s my personal opinion). We must spend a lot of time studying, writing, preaching, traveling, counseling, leading, putting out fires, organizing, casting visions, and so much more. Even though we are loved or liked at times, we must endure spiritual and mental abuse on a regular basis. We must be careful of how we talk, act, and think. Not only that, we must be careful of how we use our body language and facial expressions. This type of work can be spiritually, mentally, and physically exhausting.
Then there is the pastoral family. Even though a good pastor will try his best to shield his family from the spiritual and mental abuse put forth by some church members, we can never block the pain 100% of the time. The pastoral family must deal with gossip, complaining, judgment, isolation, anger, and abuse. When a family observes their father and husband being spiritually and mentally attacked, the experiences will impact everyone. At times, the pastoral family is praying, “Lord, save us from Your people!”
Is the pastoral experience all doom and gloom? No! Working with people can be very rewarding. Seeing people’s lives impacted and changed for God is very exciting.
After being a pastor for about five years now, I can feel for the prophet Jeremiah a little. Here was a young man who was called by God to communicate difficult messages truth to a rebellious people. Jeremiah did not feel confident in his divine calling… “Ah, Sovereign LORD,” I said, “I do not know how to speak; I am only a child” (Jer. 1:6). But the good Lord reasoned with His servant… But the LORD said to me, “Do not say, ‘I am only a child.’ You must go to everyone I send you to and say whatever I command you. Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you and will rescue you,” declares the LORD (Jer. 1:7, 8). With this promise tucked into his heart, Jeremiah began to learn that when you are on God’s side of the spiritual battle, no one (human or demonic) can stand against you.
If a pastor is called by God to lead within His end time Church, he does not need to worry about church members who act-out in rebellious ways. Until Jesus comes, there will always be church members who spiritually and mentally abuse their pastors. But if the pastor is allowed to really lead a church family, these attacks can be minimized.
Pastors who love the Lord and study His Word and other good sources of wisdom, should be allowed to recreate our churches into safe havens of rest and spiritual growth. God wants all His churches to be visitor-friendly, family-focused, spiritually-balanced, and mission-driven. If wolves in sheep clothing sneak into the churches, the pastors (and church boards) should be allowed to protect the flock from the attacks of the devil. Any theology and teachings that undermine the spiritual foundation and structure of the Church are demonic in nature and must be dealt with swiftly and lovingly. If the churches and local conferences support this type of leadership, our churches will become healthier and stronger.
Pastoral ministry can be very rewarding, but… “Get yourself ready! Stand up and say to them whatever I command you. Do not be terrified by them, or I will terrify you before them. Today I have made you a fortified city, an iron pillar and a bronze wall to stand against the whole land—against the kings of Judah, its officials, its priests and the people of the land. They will fight against you but will not overcome you, for I am with you and will rescue you,” declares the LORD (Jer. 1:17-19).